I actually just thought of something I could post on H's wall. I just applied for a job today and he helped me out with a particularly difficult "reason for leaving" response. Maybe I could post something about that as a lead-in to posting other stuff.

And on the comment about the apology for getting so nasty the past two days... maybe I could replace the word 'mine' with 'family' so it reads....

"I'm sorry I verbally attacked you so willfully last night. I understand your friends are important to you, and you have been trying to reach a balance between your need for friendship and your need to spend time with your family."

I never actually apologized too much before (I just did the joke and go on type thing) so when I attack, I try to do that now, and I think rearranging the wording in that statement puts the emphasis on his "friendship" and his "family" rather than OW and ME. What do you think?

Me 32, H 34, DD 3
M 6, T 8
Bomb 03/10
OW Bomb 6/5/10
Separate & NC 6/28/10
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