Yeah I've gone two ways on the "ghost" anniversaries...In Aug on the anniv of Bomb #1 (I'm not ILWY...I want a D...there's no OW) I let myself focus on it, CJ didn't clue in to the significance of the date FOR ME...until after (and I was all bummed out).
What I wanted was some kind of gesture, some consoling, something!!
What he wanted and said so, was to NOT let these dates become a smear on our R...So the anniv of Bomb #2 (OW calls here asking when CJ's moving cross country to move into "their" apartment ) was at the end of Nov (not exactly sure of the date!!!) and I just let that one ride.
Might of mentioned it on the bb, but that was it.
I'm hoping that Feb 25th ...hard to forget that on as it was my Niece's 18th birthday...bomb #3...(she's STILL in the picture and calls again after CJ finally breaks it off)...will be more of a celebration...a year with her out of our lives!!!
But I'll settle for a nice 19th birthday celebration for L.
As for the legit anniv's...well CHL, CJ USED To buy me a gift and card for each MONTH we were together until we got married!!
Mr. Memory would never "forget" our anniv or my birthday (it was his Dad's too)...do I sound a bit bitter about his memory???
Any ways, I'm way off track now!!! Late night neural firing!
) was at the end of Nov (not exactly sure of the date!!!) and I just let that one ride.
