Aha- well at least no matter if today you want to R and tomorrow you want to D, not thinking (or analyzing?) is probably best! Easier said than done though. Just float...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004