Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

Update:

W and I eventually made it out the door. W decided to drive for once (I usually offer since in the past I would criticize her driving.

W stopped off at the bed store. My W wanted to get shirt for my parents dog (long story lol). We then headed out to FIL's house to visit him and his GF who was just released from the hospital. On the way I stopped and got FIL GF some flowers.

We arrived at FIL and we were greeted. FIL usually gives W hug and kiss and he would shake my hand. This time he did not shake my hand but he did ask how I was doing.

We hung out for about about an hour talking about a wide range of things at times laughing and joking. FIL asked me how work is going.

FIL and W were talking about THE HOUSE. W said nothing about moving in or when it will be ready for her but it was more of FIL talking about what he wants to do with it and how much he has done to this point.

When we left FIL said to W "ILY" and to me "OIN I'll be seeing you"

On the way back home we stopped off at MIL house (VERY RARE THIS HAPPENS) and dropped off a gift we had got for W's sister. I could detect the tension between W and MIL.

We continued to head back home and to my surprise W decided to stop by THE HOUSE FIL is fixing up. We walked around the house and looked into the windows ect...W did not say anything about moving in or that being her future apartment. One thing she did make reference to was she said "I should have a key for this anyway" but I said nothing thinking she was trying to bait me. W would inherit this home one day from FIL so it could had meant that but I am not sure.

We left. On the way home W wanted to stop at another store and give the dog shirt another attempt (seems weird but like I said long story). W was looking at other things like new bedding, new pillow, table cloths, candles for the back desk ect... but purchased none. Then W was looking at undergarments. I made a suggestion of something I thought looked nice and she purchased it, too bad I won't get to see her in it lol.

We get back home. W and I go to parents and put t-shirt on new dog. My father said <W name> I have not seen you over her in a long time. W laughed. We then were leaving and father said to W "stop in again" W laughed and said "OK"

throughout the course of the day had her typical WAS attitude. Bitterness and shortness in her responses at times and stupid facial expressions ect...

Well as I was typing this W comes out the bath and ask "are my pants and shirt out there?" I said "yes" W asked if I could bring them to her. I took them to her handed them over as she put just her arm out the bathroom door shielding her body from me...sorry but that just blows my mind every time. Why get the undergarments I suggest and I can't see you in them>?