I hate to say it but a lot of it has to do with time. I remember it hit just hit me. I went for a walk and I tried to picture how I wanted my life to be and He wasn't anywhere in it. I saw myself picking up that darn rope and throwing it with almost super human strength far, far away. I haven't looked back.
I treat him as nicely as I would the post man but that is about it. Ok so recent romance to get over. Give me a week and I will probably use the same strategy.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory