So here I am awhile since I have posted but am confused. I am been doing super good with my GALing and no crying, begging etc. Then yesterday my H was acting and saying things that were as if he wanted this to work but then last night he was talking about getting an apartment. Then today I didn't contact him all day long and he gets home and is mad...I ask why and he says...well you didn't even talk to me all day long? What the heck I don't get it at all, why would he want me to contact him? I did respond by the way that I thought we were spacing us out as far as getting use to how it will be when we aren't living together or married.
That's where you went wrong, Katie. DON'T ASK WHY. It's called "temperature-checking," and it's a big DB no-no.
It's not your job to rescue him from his moods, which are caused by his own poor decisions.
