Golf - looks like you are doing really good....I can't wait to be happy again, it's been a hard year. Working on it
I know that it will come, one step at the time. I would still prefer to be married then to be single...but we do what we have to. Who knows what the future will bring.
CW - That H took D for a trip was a good start, now I hope that he will keep it up. And I don't mean just fun trips, but to actually be involved in her day-to-day life. Recently he started picking her up from work and driving her home, so far he only did it for one week, so we will see how long that will last. I don't know when he is leaving again to visit OW, but I'm sure that it will be soon, so that chore will revert back to me I guess while he is gone.
After the initial frenzy of e-mails and H trying to get back control after I went dark, it all stopped. He doesn't contact me much, almost no emails, business or otherwise.
That counseling that he had scheduled is day after tomorrow.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
