it's just incomprehensible how they can destroy their family and forever change the course of their children's lives and cause such complete devastation--and then think they ought to chat about volleyball.

I'm so sorry you're here, v1.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012