Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

Last night we had a discussion about where we were in this R. I expressed all those points "Sandi2" my W basically looked at me with a blank stare. She had nothing to offer me.

I've actually considered taking the reigns and doing all the leg work for the D. I guess in the back of my head I wonder if I make it too easy she'll actually sign the papers. I guess that is something I need to swallow, it's really come down to it.

In the heat of the argument she mentioned that she was basically stalling because of the house. That stung a little bit, I guess all the "I want to work on our M" was a load of crap.

I started reading the DR again. It's such an uplifting book. I read the 1st couple chapters and it really gives you hope even when your in the thick of things. The D trap is so interesting, I almost felt that sigh of relief when she convinced me that D is what she wanted. I felt the pain go away for just a 1/2 second......

I'm not sure what to do know, I guess I need to research whether attorneys or mediators are the way to go. Financially I was told mediators are the way to go as long as agreements aren't complicated. Any thoughts??????