No 2x4 from me. Take your time to grieve. You did the best you could.

And yes, it's always easier being on the outside looking in -- because observers do not have the emotional investment that you have in the situation.

You will be fine. Rest assured... you did the best you could under the circumstances.

M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT