Waiting More Than a Dozen Years

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Are you saying many women know they want to cuckhold a stable and secure male so they can go do what they want?

In a word: yes.

At the moment it certainly seems so not only at a personal level and through my own experience(s), but also seems reinforced by surveys as referenced above.

To some extent we are all trained to think this way: 'if only I find the "right person," I'll get what I want and/or need.'

My own experience with my first wife was that once she had me married to her, bought the house to fulfill the trappings of the steps that married people take towrds starting a family, and then once she had our son (in wedlock with my surname) she was done with me.

She no longer needed and wanted me and sought to discard me. I was reminded of that this past weekend when I was at the beach where I realized that my sexlife with her was taking a rather bizarre turn.

My current wife, as I've outlined before, got nailed by a coworker that she was criticizing when her coworker pointed out the obvious...that my wife used sex "to get a husband." Unless my wife has shared our sexual situation with this woman coworker(and I certainly have not) then the observation from outside is just that simple.

My wife gets what she wants. A chauffeur, a helper/gofer, and someone who tolerates her QVC/HSN shopping affliction (it is her money), and a reasonably good handyman that can decorate the house the way she wants it. She has recently gotten concerned by my overt and explicit unwillingness to voice any opinion on anything (why would anything I think or want matter?) But it has not changed her basic operation.

But she is not alone...when nearly 2/3rds of the married women would rather do anything except by sexual with their husbands we, as a whole are either much lousier lovers than we collectively think we are, or these married women have what they want and sex is used to keep it from all flying apart.