TWolf I think you are doing well here.. You said yourself you've noticed a change ALREADY in your wife since you started speaking up for yourself and getting your face out there...
Stop hiding, stop texting, stop distancing yourself from this problem.. get in OM's FACE and everyone else's face in a positive way... SHOW them you are a MAN who will protect his family
IGNORE your wife's "love of my life" crapola, she's deluded.
Did you know affair couples success rate LONG TERM is less than 1%?
The success rate for normal marriages is FIFTY percent...
50 versus 1... which dice do you want to roll?
Your wife will start to wake up over time, just NO CURSING and stay calm and mature.. DRESS NEATLY and try to look like the adult and OM will look like the weasely coward he is...
