Spent the weekend in Germany hanging out with old friends. Most of them were friends of ours as a married couple, and strongly friends of Mrs. T's. I was a bit apprehensive that I could lose this group in the D, but nope, that's not happening.
It seems that when they figured out what she was doing (a while ago), they tried to talk her out of it. When they did so, she dropped contact with them. As most of them have themselves also (in the past) gone through a crazy divorce, they are completely able to understand what's going on.
It was a great, open weekend full of support, relaxation and good German beer.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.