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[angierenee]

Thanks for all the advice! I have been working on myself more and more each day. I am not sad anymore about the separation in fact I am accepting it and detaching myself. What made this easy to accept is my husband came home after drinking and was very verbally abusive to me. He didn't realize my daughter was awake...when I finally got him away from me and he slammed the door to his room, my daughter came out of her room crying and she said.."I heard everything he said".

That was my turning point. She doesnt even want him to take her to school. And when she told him this he flipped out and said "Fine if everyone in this house hates me I'll just leave!" Suffice to say he talked himself into staying but I took my daughter and she hung out with me until school. I wish he would leave the house. HE is very negative and angry. Also he is very selfish.

All he cares about is himself...after his hateful banter on saturday i can confidently say i am done with no regrets. The look in his eyes towards me was the meanest look, you don't say the things he said to people you love. The next morning he said I'm sorry i dont remember what I did. "I said well I do and so does your daughter...it was inexcusable"... I know this is a divorce busting board but you guys help me out more than you know. And i may still need your help throughout the divorce process. so thank you