I chose the one less traveled by...#29

[kat727]

Haven't we though? Who would have thought that even a year ago I could say I had a romance, even if short lived? Or that I feel pretty good for the most part. Have to put in the time and the work though, it doesn't just happen. Though I suppose after a while one would just come to terms with it.

I think we are all doing one better, working on ourselves. The reason why I think divorce rates for second marriages are so high is the the work wasn't done. Just a quick fix to the pain was sought and was called love. Just have to dig deeper and deal with yourself too. I think we all are healing from being the poor ugly ducklings to find ourselves turning into beautiful swans.(and nothing against ducks, they just aren't as graceful...)

kat