I'm going to try and keep my story brief! On march 23rd I packed my husbands bags and ask him to get out and he did! My husband has been constantly partying and putting his friends first from the beginning of our marriage. I really didnt want him to leave,but was feed up with his ways. Since then, I have argued, pleaded, begged, accused PA with OW. On may 24th he told me he wanted a divorce and I had 60 days to find a job. Because my family does not leave where we do I will not stay, but need a job and insurance to move on! I am utterly heartbroken......I DONT WANT A DIVORCE! I was raised christian and feel divorce is wrong. I started DR book and have read many forums. Is there any hope left?
I started the LRT 1 week ago (06/01/10). Since, then my H has either texted, called, or stop by our house everyday. He is always asking my plans, who I am hanging out with, what time I got home, etc. I know that he is currently talking to his former boss and having EA. She just recently went through a D! I'm trying so hard to stick with LRT, but it is so hard! Please any advice is welcome! This is more painful than when I lost my Mother to breast cancer 10 years ago!
Sorry to hear about your sitch, but glad you found this site and that you are reading DR. Keep reading it and finish it ASAP. Consensus is NOT to let spouse see/read the book or this website. They are YOUR tools to get your relationship back on track.
Read the "boundaries" thread.
I strongly suggest that you do not REACT to spouse any more. Everything should be a RESPONSE.
"Puppy Dog Tails" gives great advise. Do a search on his posts and read as many as you can.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
