Okay, since what I discovered is a deal breaker, I'm having my L take over & getting the best deal I can. He had wanted to take care of it with us doing our own MSA & just having the L's look it over.
He is still out of town on his second trip to Mexico in the last couple of weeks.
When he returns in two days, I plan on telling him to pick up his belongings. I have already requested this, but he tells me he doesn't intend, nor has to do that until we are legally D'd. I will find out from my L if that is the case.
Here is where I messed up. Every time I got serious, he would reel me back in, and I let him. Rinse/Repeat.
As much as I can read the posts here & know the course to take, apparently I can suck @ my own. It would have been much different had I known all the facts.
Here I go, adjusting BGP's so they're nice & cozy.
