OK maybe I'm completely wrong here but please...just one thing? if she didn't feel you were attracted to her then why the heck would you want her so badly and why wouldn't she figure out a way to work on that perceived issue?

Honestly, I don't think it's ever a single thing and I really don't think even they know why they did what they did. Just like us they're trying to lay the blame rest on something to find closure.

Maybe I'm wrong...

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again