I was not expecting her to have a great time. I simply asked if she wanted to go to be nice, I guess. She never includes me in her plans and I was trying to take the high road.
It's confusing because she says she is done. Fine. Be done, but don't ruin my fun with the kids and the kid's fun.
BTW, I was having a great time, interacting with the kids and my friend who invited us and her kids. Also friends dad who I had not seen in a long time. We talked baseball and followed the game and he helped explain some things to my kids who were watching the game. I did not sulk or try to pressure W into having a "good" time. The kids and I did and I allowed her to be however she wanted. I did ask her on occasion how her friend was and asked if she was okay. I never ignored her, just let her be.
