Okay, it is a crisis, but you are working on it and, like my H, he's still home. He still loves you. You are working hard to stop what doesn't work and I think you're doing a good job.
So glad you were able to hold you tongue! You know that he is probably watching you for your reaction when he brings something like that up, but you showed him a very mature, trusting, loving Karen. Yea!! You did great.
Exercise really does make a difference in how we feel. It can really be a big pick-me-up.
You seem so together when it comes to being active. I think that Pam is right. Just keep on doing what you are doing and what you want to do and H will catch on. But, it will do no good to try to push him to exercise. As far as I know, that has never worked on anybody. But, when he sees how much fun you are having, he won't want to be left behind!
I think I missed the info on your shindig. What are you having? (Being nosy here! ) Here's my .02 (which is about what it is worth) Don't worry about who's coming. Just be a knock-out in the way you look and in the way you act. Don't worry about making H proud, make Karen proud! Be confident and secure. Relax and have a good time. Keep your mouth shut and your eyes dry!! You know that you can do it.
You know that he is probably watching you for your reaction when he brings something like that up, but you showed him a very mature, trusting, loving Karen. Yea!! 
You did great.
) Here's my .02 (which is about what it is worth) Don't worry about who's coming. Just be a knock-out in the way you look and in the way you act. Don't worry about making H proud, make Karen proud! Be confident and secure. Relax and have a good time. Keep your mouth shut and your eyes dry!! 
You know that you can do it.
