You need to find a way to NOT be at the gym when your wife is. Trust me, she FEELS that you are trying to be there when she is.(doesn't matter whether you are or not, but that is what she thinks) You HAVE to find times when she isn't there. This is most important. No excuses. Find another time. Purposely STOP looking for her car when you come in or leave. These little things like not looking for her car and not being there when she is are steps forward to letting go and for not only you to let go, but for her to FEEL that you have let go.
I was thinking the same thing. Start being mysterious. She'll start to ask around the gym about you.
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