Thanks Dday, it is a little clearer now. I will not be her doormat and I do know how to spot that type of behaviour from her now. I will go about my life and see what happens.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final