He noticed that I hadn't been wearing my rings. Mind you I had them in my purse. Asked if i had told my folks we r getting a d. I said no. He asked why not. I said because I'm Still coming to Terms with it. I asked him if he had and he said no.
We started talking about how I started acting like my old self and that he was feeling trapped because of it.
Then I pointed out how
He came home and literally the next day his Mom was here
We never had us time. We never had space. I admitted to not Giving him his space but that we both had her on our ears egging us on He agreed and kept Saying that he believes she was trying to sabotage our R
He then asked why I keep bringing OW into everything and I tell him about my insecurities and how hurt his actions made me
I stupidly asked if he regretted his actions
He said he regrets eveything that's happened up until this point. He never wanted all of this to happen. Thinks it's out of control. He never meant to fall out of love with his wife but that he was so miserable and he tried to be loving towards me but I rejected him. He said that in turn he did what made him happy (have affair)(that hurt to hear)
why is he questioning me? This is all confusing.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
