OK then. You seem to have everything under control. Good luck.
Not even close, but I understand your frustration with my replies. I spoke to my uncle about all of this. He's been divorced twice and he gave me an earful. I have to do something about this sit.
W and I kind of "had it out" yesterday after she went off on me yet again. I told her I refused to live this anymore - walking on eggshells and waiting for the next blow-up. She got p***ed and told me to stop the threats. She also repeated something I've heard before, "If you leave you will regret it!" Besides the fact that I don't want to leave b/c I would lose my kids, I also fear for their safety. W doesn't seem stable at all at this point and I'm afraid if I push this it could ugly. She's already told me she would use the kids against me.