V1olin's new life without wife

[dday101798]

Nah, just roll with the punches my friend and keep on your feet.

I didn't say "give her the cold shoulder", merely let her come to you about the papers, but, your situation doesn't allow for that approach, so do what you must, only you know.

And from there, when it all goes through, there is a lifted burden, believe it or not. Yeah it hurts like hell, but there's a silver lining to it. It's kind of like watching a loved one die a slow death, and when it's finally done, you know they are in a better place and no longer suffering. Same goes for the defunct M that got you here.

From there, some folks such (x)W and I can finally bring closure to age old issues that would simply never be laid to rest. And therefor, if there's still a loving bond, a new relationship can flourish, quickly and better than ever, after all the slate is clean.

Again, I don't say this to fill with you all out hope. After all, to me, hope has a fine line to becoming expectations.

Little clearer?