Sure there was something there! The passion of a new romance, the excitement of somebody new. You know all those initial feelings when you meet somebody new who knows how to make you feel special. New romance is always spellbinding, it's like a drug and compared to the mundane everyday R you have with your spouse...you know, all those bills, where will the kids go to summercamp, did you fix the car blah blah blah and then collapsing on the couch at the end of the day. Now, don't get me wrong, it is good to look back and see the part we played in the M falling apart but only at OUR part. Don't downplay the role of the WAS, they decided to land the death blow! Be honest but also kind to yourself when you look back.
