You're right ... I had some short term goals for the R but met them and then forgot to name some more ... must sit and think about that ...
My personal short term goals are still ongoing... 1. exercise 2. reading 3. working my p/t business 4. GAL
are my biggies ...
Hmmmm ... R goals ...
1. I'm thinking another unscheduled, H initiated meeting - lunch, supper etc ...
other than that I'm kinda stuck ... I want to say a kiss initiated by H but that might be pushing too fast too soon ...
Funny, there were times over the last few days that I almost felt like we were flirting, like 'back in the day' ... just the way that were laughing and getting along. I guess my best goals for now are to steer clear of any and all R talk, steer clear of any and all OW/JF talk (other woman/just friend?? don't want newbie readers to think he is carrying on a current explicit affair ... for an explanation you'll have to ask or go back through the thread ).
Do more of what works: - laughing - be spontanious and fun (less predictable) - let him initiate contact - give him space - tell him 'thank you' when warrented, don't overdo it - notice his positive changes - do not offer unsolicited advice - do not interfere with the kids when he's parenting - trust him to remember things - do not react when he forgets something - stay calm, cool and collected - be mysterious
Do less of what doesn't work: - mention OW/JF at all (even if she happens to wish him happy b'day on facebook! grrrr) - ask questions - fish for compliments
Ok, I think I covered most of them in the first list, oh well at least they are written down now ...
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
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