oh lees--you can see my thread and see me posting the same thing!

I know how much this hurts. I spent some time this weekend crying thinking about X and OW wedding.

Are you officially in D proceedings, or however GB dissolves a same-sex marriage? If you aren't divorced in September, will it be legal for X to marry OW?

The friends helping out just adds to the hurt. And, unfortunately, I know that feeling for real, too!

All I can say is I am surviving this--you can, too. I didn't want to survive for many months, but now I am peeking around the possibility of being glad that I did survive. And you will get there, too.

Plus you had a fabulous week of fabulous activities! Remember that--remember that your X is now mincing around in expensive shoes, and in no way having the fun you are! (if you had said kite-boarding, I would have gotten that).

Please hold on to every moment of fun and love you are having--you just wrote that good things are coming on fast and thick, remember? Think about that and try to pull your mind off X and OW.

And let me know when you settle in Scotland--I'm coming for a visit!

Keep posting--

((lees))