This morning W woke up before I did and went downstairs, to eat and then I guess she settled on the couch to watch TV ( I heard it). I eventually woke up and headed down myself, when I got down there W was watching TV, I sat on other couch and W began to talk to me about the funny things the dog had done since she had been up. I went back upstairs shortly after and W remained downstairs.
A short while later I got dressed and went back downstairs W asked me where was I going. I said "nowhere at the moment but I had planned to go..." and I told W my plan which did include invite to her.
Shortly after W went to take a bath which I assumed was so she can get ready to go. W came into the bedroom covered up and turned her back to me and began to rest. I asked "Do you plan on going?" W said "Maybe in a little bit, but you can go do whatever you wanted to get done" I decided that there were a couple things I could do while she stayed at home and rest.
As I was getting ready to leave we had an exchange. W has habit of leaving dirty dishes laying around (since sitch began she started doing this) and normally I would be Mr. Nice guy and just take it to the sink with no issue. This time I let it sit there and allow her to do it herself. One day later the dishes are still sitting there so I said "The plate and bowl need to go down stairs" with alight attitude W said "What?" I repeated myself and she said "obviously" and in a nice calm down I said "No need for an attitude I was only saying, they have been there for two days" W then replied "1 day" instead of going back and forth I said nothing in return and left the dishes where they were. Then I left. We'll see how long or if she even does take them down.
BTW PDT if you are reading this, I made a few comments directed toward you a page back...
Last edited by OfficerInNeed; 06/07/1005:16 PM.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10