I definitely like the 'running away from your problems and family,,'.
I will use that one soon.

She may only be being civil so as to try to convince me that I should be the one to move out because financially, me living in bro's basement is free compared to her in paying apartment rent, but I kinda see that coming, and will not leave the house.

I don't see many other ways to pressure the affair at this point. I have the name and number to his HR dept person that would handle this, bur I think that might back fire a bit. It is a very ethical medical facility, therefore I think they would talk to him, but then him telling W, might make her guilt closer to him(if that makes sense).


from my fortune cookie,,,,,,"Adversity is the test for strong men"
Me -44
WAW - 43
D14
D8
EA/PA mid May,2010
WAW moved out- 07/01/10
WAW filed 07/01/10