Maybe some people prefer to play the damsel in distress and always need someone to save their butts! All I can ask is what attractive about that??
I do know though that I need to be with someone who is just as "strong" as I am. I didn't appreciate doing so much alone, especially since I was married! Might cause some issues but hey if those can be worked out...I could be as good as gold. The real thing is that they would have to want the same thing...which is where a snag might be.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory