wii, you're right, it's probably about acknowledgement and nothing more- just like your screen name.

alice, thanks, I know you're in a tough spot yourself but I appreciate your writing to me. Believe me, I'm not over her- and not sure if it's even about her or just the fact that I liked my previous life and losing it is just not easy.

Her reply just came in:


"DD doesn't cry when I drop her off in the mornings. I give her lots of hugs and kisses too. I brought her nap stuff in this morning and she was having fun playing with Sydney and Madison in Ms. Diana's room. I didn't think that I was trying to distract her on Saturday, but sorry if I was. I was trying to comfort her.

Her school's having a party this Wednesday after school that she might enjoy, it's called Family Day and I think is just their MOther/Father's day celebrations wrapped into one. It's the usual 4:30-6p thing.

DD's Daisy troop is having their last meeting of the school year this Thursday, June 10. I can bring her. They are having a Build-A-Bear party at the mall. So if you need to stay late that day at work, you can. The party is supposed to last 1-1.5 hours so she'll be done around 5-5:30.

And the week of July 12-16 is DD's Daisy summer camp from 1:30-7:30 at XYZ. They will be serving snacks and dinner for the girls or we can pack a dinner for her. You will have her on 14-15 and I will pick her up on 12,-13, 15. I will bring her during my lunch hour that week. It should be a fun time I think their theme is, "Once Upon a Camp" and the website (cheesy) is: xyz"


How ironic about the family day and the summer camp's theme "once upon a camp"? How can she even process this stuff without feeling guilt and remorse.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again