We had a really great weekend, but he still hasn't contacted OW to officially draw the line. He prefers the "just ignore the situation and maybe it will go away" route, but I've had it with that. I told him all reconciling is off until he contacts her and copies me on it telling her it is over, he has returned to his marriage and family and that she is not to contact him ever again. If he says that is what he really wants, then it is time to "man up" and do it. As for me....how do I learn to trust again? How do I move on and start healing? "Stop Thinking" has worked in the past, but my anxiety has escalated to the point of what feels like no return during this last slip of his.
