Need a Plan for My Marriage

[LSG]

IDU,

I did not remember anything I was supposed to do. I did not validate her feelings at all because I have done that in the past, and it just has her turn everything back on me. I did not feel that I have anything to apologize for and I did not believe that I should validate the outlandish things that she was saying. I guess not the right approach, but I felt I needed to validate my feelings this time and the reality of the situation through a different perspective, not hers.

Things are going good because I feel that I am moving in the right direction, and I believe that D is going to be that direction.

I am very detached more than ever and taking care of business too.

I am very much about the kids, and they know that I believe more than ever. I am very happy with the person I am more than ever. I have had to change my mindset to focus on the parts of my life that are really important.

I know I will be okay for sure. The ups and downs are spread apart more now.

I thank you for the voice of reason today, and that is what I need.