Talked to son2 last night on the phone he was not very talkitive.
Tryed talking to stbxw about sons flew she was distiant,she never said hi or good buy like the last time we talked. I dont understand how she could be nice when i was not taking her BS to being cold. Maybey the O/M was their?

We have mediation on tuesday, hope it goes like i want.

Im going to talk to her after mediation im going to tell her that the door is open to save our marrige.
I will tell her that i dont want our son to grow up in a broken home and that i still love her.
Im not going to beg i will be cool calm and strong.
I will bash the O/M and i will let her know that she has so many reasons for staying.

Its like she talks her self out of wanting to stay married and i have to tell her she is wrong on things and put her in her place just to get her to stop justfing the A in her head.

I know she told me she thinks that i think of her as a trophy, You know what she is right, She is my wife the mother of our son she is a trophy to me.
At least i came out of the corner swinging the O/M still outside the ropes hiding under his robe.


Allen.... do you have any addvice for me on this?

Sandi.... do you think women like men that fight for them and stay strong .


Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10