still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Well things are going to be a bit slow on my end until I talk to my therapist next week to formulate my plan for addressing this divorce.

There are plenty of people who don't post something every day so I think I will try that! lol! I mean I feel like I am standing at the bow of the ship as it is sinking.

Or "Slow dancing in a burning room." (John Mayer)

This week's project- painting the hall bathroom and prepping it for moulding. I will be spending more time doing that than leaning on my crutch of the DB forum!

Citygirl-- to answer your question about WH spending more time with OW's daughter--the reason why I don't talk about it on here is that it is important to gloss over certain things (mentally) when dealing with crisis (in my opinion). My brain couldn't process everything and my body couldn't take it. So I kind of do a compartmentalizing thing so it isn't overwhelming. So in regard to that fact, it is WH's loss with his son and I don't see how it helps me to move on from WH by thinking about the fact he is choosing to spend more time with OW's little girl than his son. I guess I can bring it up to him when we discuss the divorce- just to dig it in or something? I guess that is the real point of it bringing it up. BTW I doubt you know nothing about raising kids!

OK so unless something major happens I am signing off for a bit. Need to mull things over and come up with my plan.