On another site, I was told that my H deals with life transitions poorly and since this is the second time he has handled it with an A...I do worry that it could happen again. Also, IF he makes it through and comes home, that I should have him seek counseling to learn better coping skills. If your H's have done this before, that might be something to think about for you guys too.
For now, I do not plan to push the D. Am going to sit on it for awhile longer...we are only about 10mos in since the bomb...wow, can't believe that it has been that long...
NM...
In a way, I think I must truly be detaching as I am able to see the things that I didn't like about H and our M and the way he treated me but this is the way he has been since his last life transition. He needs to finish this to become a better person. Yes, there are many things that I miss but I don't seem to think about them as much!
Being on the boards has been very helpful and comforting. We all seem to go thru these ups and downs and it is good to come here for help getting through the downs and for different opinions and sometimes someone will post something very insightful and amazing and we do need that!!!! Taking a break once in awhile is a good thing too!!! Please check in once in awhile!!!
I seem to do ok for awhile and then my impatience at the whole situation kicks up! Have I said one of the things I need to work on for myself is patience?
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
