Sorry, I explained on the second page or somewhere previously where she told me she was going.
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All I do know is that I love her, I want to marry her, and I want our relationship to grow stronger and get better again.
Lost to GF: I love you, I want to marry you and I want our relationship to grow stronger and get better. I am willing to do the things that will make that a reality. Are you?
If she says 'yes', Lost, if I were you, I would go to xyz jeweler TODAY to buy the ring you can afford, put it on her finger and make the appt. with the JOP.
If she says 'no', tell her you will need a formal agreement with her to make sure you don't lose any contact with your daughter. Other than that, y'all need to go your separate ways. Tell her that. No more limbo for either of you. Fish...or cut bait.
Greek
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Well I went ahead and talked to her lastnight. She couldnt give me an answer. She said she needed the weekend to sort things out, so she was going to take the kids and her to their grandma's.
My GF has been going out every weekend for the last month with her lady friend/coworker. I've had issues with her doing this as I posted in my first post of this thread.
So after taking Greek's advice and talking with her, she told me she was taking the kids to their grandma's house and was going to stay there for the weekend to sort it out. The kids called me the next day cause they couldnt find their medication. That is when i found out she was only there for two hours, and came back into town all night.
After i found that out, i called my GF. She was with her lady friend at the time i called her. I dont know what she actually did that night. When i was on the phone with her briefly, I asked her what she did that night, and she kept reflecting the question back to me or saying why does it matter. I said several times "because it matters". So finally she wanted to get off the phone and I said no you need to talk with me now. I lied to me about what you where you were going to be this weekend. So she then said I've pretty much made up my mind. I got upset and told her not to bother coming home.
Sorry I dont want to repost what I've already posted.
