And I said this to her:

Originally Posted By: Allen A

I am not kicking you out, YOU are choosing to destroy a marriage rather than to rebuild one


But she thinks that I am the one who is destroying the marriage.

She asked me how we are going to pay for an apartment for her and I said, "That's your problem and to ask the OM to pay for it. If he really cares, he will pay for it."


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.