My behaviors meaning that I stop putting myself first. I stop GAL and worry moreso about what he is doing and what we can do together....among other things of course.
Way to speak it Time. Are there any external triggers that cause you do get into that pattern? Or anything else that seems to happen each time before you get pulled into that old reaction? Maybe it's something he says, or difficult subject matter you're discussing?
If you can identify what's going on around you, when find yourself resorting to an old habit or patter, then it's sometimes easier to keep yourself from doing it because you can 'see it coming'. Don't know if that helps or not?
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