Gnosis, Beleive it or not my PMA is actually very good, I am just still hung up on my wife. You are right about us being divorced for months now. It has been a year really that we have been divorced, in the mind.


One thing that I ALWAYS think about as it relates to my DB'ing is that we were both always very bad at communication in our marriage. It is a 180 for me to speak up to her and tell her that I still care and that I want a stronger marriage and a whole family, etc., etc. I have always had to be the pursuer in our relationship. Will she ever pursue me? Even if she wanted another chance? I know her pretty well and I think that her pride would stop her from talking to me about reconciling.


Well, I am still going to sign today and live my life afterwards. Going to take a beginning motorcycle course soon and that should be a blast!

Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final