Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails

Go read Allen A's posts about how to present the choice. It's not you or OM; it's destroying your family vs. working to save your family.
Puppy


Thanks Puppy...I realized that the choice is between our family and OM...so towards the end of the evening I reiterated that fact many times "It's either our family or OM...your choice". Of course she viewed that as an ultimatum to which I reminded her that she is here of her free will and there is nothing stopping her from leaving...the door is open and the choice is hers.

When WW expressed her displeasure at my actions over the last two months (how awful of me to want her to commit to our marriage and end her EA..shame on me!) to which I replied "my actions are designed to save this family and keep it together"

Last edited by loweinsd51; 06/07/10 02:25 PM.
M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10