NO, you did not "have" to ask! That is a huge turn-off to a WAW. Do you want to turn her off? Just keep thinking you "have" to do it and it will continue to push her away! God, you men are something else. You just HAD to ask. You knew the answer and yet you went there nevertheless.
I see your point. I did not actually say anything but the grin alone was enough that she knew what I meant.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
The more despart you act and talk....the more it will leave her feeling cold. So...think about what you just have to do or say.
Unfortunately you are right. I do not act like I am desperate except for weak times like this. But the truth is, in my heart I am desperate to win the heart of my wife back. But what else can I do? I have changed a lot of what I did for the better. She has even mentioned this.(NO I DID NOT ASK) I have given her time and space that she asked for during the week. Other than sleeping in the same bed and being together, she acts like we did a long time ago. So I ask WHAT THE HELL ELSE CAN I DO? How can we be so close in so many ways and yet she be so distant? Sandi, you are the expert on this. What does she want? What can I do to draw her in without actually trying. I keep reading the book for answers and I have not found them. Hopefully your perspective will.
