I feel like i need to contact WAW

[TimeHeals]

but I also wonder that if this court case will kill any possibilty of us reconciling.

Your first priorities are to protect yourself and your family.

That is your job DAD. She's willing to abandon your D to foster care, and doing that because you hope it will change her mind on Divorce is ridiculous. Appeasment never works.

Protect your family.

On another front, I have been GAL'ng and got a couple of phone numbers of some cute females so that really helps my confidence etc

I'm not a big fan of rebound Relationships: they are a way to simply boost your ego at the expense of others and to avoid doing the tough work of improving yourself, IMHO.

I say focus on saving your family. Your W can do as she wishes, but you need to step up for your kids.