So much of your story sounds similar to mine. One minute, you have a loving, compassionate mate, and the next, it's "Who is this person?" And weekends are the worst. I went out and found work rather quickly, and that keeps me busy during the week. The key is KEEPING BUSY. I know that is so much easier said than done; it has taken me weeks to be able to pick back up by sewing or watch an entire movie. You will have good moments and bad, but there are plenty of wise people here to get you through it. I, unfortunately, and not one of them. I'm just one of the wanderers through the night that is called MLC'ville. Keep swimmin ( Finding Nemo)
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011