How old is your wife? It sounds familiar to a lot of the stories here Our spouses seem to change overnight they are differnet different friends different dress My xh couldnt even talk to me after bomb he would leave the room when I walked it it is sad and just mind blowing the only thing I can say is we need to take care of ourselves now our spouses are being swept into something we/they have control over and the majority of them seem to follow the call they cant reason or think loically take care of your finances and be careful with credit cards watch her spending many was wind uo in debt continue to sek therapy be there for the kids create a lidfe find a hobby eat sleep and let her go lovingly be cordial and frindly not accusatory or angry good luck peace
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