AJ

How old is your wife?
It sounds familiar to a lot of the stories here
Our spouses seem to change overnight
they are differnet
different friends different dress
My xh couldnt even talk to me after bomb
he would leave the room when I walked it
it is sad and just mind blowing
the only thing I can say is we need to take care of ourselves now
our spouses are being swept into something we/they have control over and the majority of them seem to follow the call
they cant reason or think loically
take care of your finances and be careful with credit cards watch her spending many was wind uo in debt
continue to sek therapy be there for the kids
create a lidfe find a hobby eat sleep and let her go lovingly be cordial and frindly not accusatory or angry
good luck
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow