After the make up sex and the talks, I think, chapters 5 and 6 in the book become really important. Identifying Patterns That Work and Interrupting Destructive Patterns.
We speak so much about "doing something different" in a period of crisises to encourage people to get their heads screwed on straight and think clearly, but after the reconcillation, diffusing / avoiding the arguments before they happen that is equally if not more important part of Divorce Busting.
Remember people don't change.
Congratualations and Good Luck, and once again beautiful and passionate response!
