WH has emailed back. + wont give up his share of the apartment + now says he is uncomfortable about helping me with my citizenship application. Says he is uncomfortable pretending we are not seperated and doesn't want this application to get in the way of his life choices. + wants baby to have his surname + wants a divorce in due time + has been saving money for me but will give it to me next month when he has a better overview of his finances. + his decision to leave me 'find its reasons and causes only in you and me' + is sorry he failed me etc & will be remorseful for the rest of his life. + Said he separated with me the best way possible - 'to be absolutely truthful and honest, to act with integrity, to not pretend there was another chance when there was none, to be true to myself and to you, to give you the possibility of grieving our relationship and moving on onto rebuilding your life without me as your husband. To respect you and the 15 years of our relationship as partners.' Says being true to himself is also something he owes his child. + wants to be friends + says as long a I think he is sick or unfit or irresponsbile doesn't see how we can go through some mutally agreeable separation process. + wants me to find it in me to trust him again. + will always respect me as his ex-wife and mother of his beautiful child.
