June 7 at 1:31am Report You're issues with {H} are truly with him, not with me. It is clear to me that you will continue to believe what you want to believe, and that's your prerogative. I am not a moron. I do understand that there are at least two sides to every story and that I've only been hearing his...which is exactly why I haven't passed any judgments or tried to "steer" {H} in any direction. {H} is his own person, with his own thoughts and feelings. He doesn't need me to or anyone else to think for him. I understand that you know what you want. You are very vocal about it. Maybe you should try actually listening to and thinking about what he wants. Lastly, you don't know me and I don't know you. Please quit throwing around half-baked insults about my life and my choices.
Any ideas on a response? And I just told H what I thought of him spending the whole day at another woman's house while his daughter has been asking for him all afternoon. He didn't like it and actually yelled at me, which is the first time I've ever seen an emotional response to that extent. So I'm hoping I'm doing the right thing in pushing him out of his comfort zone, the one in which all he can answer is I Don't Know.
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Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
