Did I goof up on telling her not to bother coming home?

I really would like some advice on how I should proceed to DB in my sitch.

She came by today to see our daughter and discuss what we are going to do with her. I told her that I wanted my daughter living with me. She said she probably wouldnt like that, when would she be able to see her. I told her anytime you want. my GF's idea was every other week or something like that.

She said she was out looking for a place to rent.

As she was leaving she had a tear in her eye.


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